Friday, January 16, 2015

Does Social injustice of cancer exist when empathy is over shadowed by blame?


Does Social injustice of cancer exist 
when
 empathy is over shadowed by blame?
There is a solution that works for both


Together we can create a cancer free world
If you are reading this you have the power to help John 


1-13-2015 by Cynthia G. Creel


Help John live
Google johnwillheal

A conversation for life, John's story of hope
creating a change of heart
for a better tomorrow for all
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                                                               Quiz to help John:
Oh My! Monkey Mind or Elephant Intelligent?

Thank you for your prayers, thoughts and support to heal John
and help create a cancer free world for all!

"Social injustice exists
when 
 empathy is over shadowed by blame ." 
~ CGCeel


Does Social injustice of cancer exist 
when
 empathy is over shadowed by blame? 

Famed folksinger, storyteller McCutcheon, John and Team John 1-15-2015
Right to left John Mccutcheon, Cindy, John, Ashley and Kelly (part of Team JOHN)





We thought we had covered all the bases, over come so many obstetrical, prepared for a long life until the day John Cearley, the love of my life was identified with a head size sarcoma cancer hidden neatly in the abdominal cavity right between the hip bones. The impact of the real world does not exist on thinking alone, it is like a pass fail test it is what you mark on the answer sheet that tells if we will pass or fail.



Over the last year and a few months, We have come to see how much of a social injustice this identified sarcoma is wrapped around life threatening health issues with few traditional answers. We all pay a price. The shadow effects of the drug industry, insurance, company, corporations and miss information all seem to hold back the creativity and excitement for healing a person in exchange for a sure thing of profit. Profit is needed by everyone, the only question is how much has profit held back accomplishing the goal of conversation, communication and healing?
Shocked to learn:


The day John and I were out for a walk and the neighbor said, "We are at the sarcoma clinic with Stanford, that's where you are too?" was the day that I realized it was not what we knew that held John from healing  as much as what we didn't know. No one at Stanford had told us of any Stanford Sarcoma Clinic just down the road by 10 minutes. The invisible effects of a non physical action controlling the outcome of the physical in this case elimination of the mass held in John's body that was holding tight to the war within over bio chemistry that no one addressed no matter how many questions asked.  






Blame vs Empathy:

If you haven't watched the video above take a minute and watch. I find when we have no room for empathy blame takes over that is is someones fault that they did something wrong and it is always in their control.

Most often life is not about doing what is right or wrong, it is figuring it out from mistakes we make in living. It is only when we connect a that we may it find it easy enough to over come.

Often times there the thought a person did something wrong and they now have cancer is most likely a self defense step to protect from what is too painful for a person to think about. It kind of makes it easy.

 With cancer I see people blame things like smoking, stress, diet or family history. Who knows what. The reality is the reason why may be complicate, the answer starts with empathy to take action, to give hope and faith to find a way to heal. Once cancer has knocked on the door and has made itself at home, the only thing that matters in the real world is to figure a way to heal and move forward. Blame only delays the healing. Empathy speeds up the thoughts to find a way. 


Life saving by storytelling and song: 

For the last 14 years on the anniversary of Martin Luther King's birth, January 15, 1929 we have gathered to see John McCutcheon a folk singer and storyteller. The effect of healing was in the air for John remembering a time before a mass in his belly existed. My John, the love of my life sat, smiled, tapped his foot and sang along to gain a memory of the feeling as if no mass existed in him. I could see a difference in my John last night and and the feeling is still in John's step this morning. The thought of one favorite song runs through our heads has been with us from the beginning, giving us a way to know we are not alone and what we do in our ordinary everyday life matters not only for us, for all:
The fight for life starts with a hope of a future.
Time for a new goal 1999 to 2014 at  John McCutcheon's concert be there next year!!!!!


Step By Step

Step by step the longest march can be won,
 can be won

Many stones can form an arch, 
singly none, singly none

And by union what we will 
can be accomplished still

Drops of water turn a mill, singly none, 
singly none.



So does Social injustice of cancer exist when empathy is over shadowed by blame? We say yes when life that is lost because of no conversations, ego or profit a family pays the greatest cost and it over flows into society for the loss of hope and faith makes healing impractical and cold with no reason to live life will sises to exist as we want it to be. 
Ashley hoping daddy lives. John  happy he is still there to give her hugs for her for today and tomorrow. 
John's Apollo 13 mission to fully heal from what is left of an identified large sarcoma to survive and to thrive:

John has been identified with an extra large, now large sarcoma. Their really isn't a choice of traditional methods and with that we created John's ordinary healing now, a cascade healing that is working in the real world, it is a real world solution for many. We just need support from hugs to funds to help John fully heal and that take a thought that moves to an action to help.

Check out John's JOHN'S ORDINARY HEALING NOW fund
at gofundme.com/JohnWillHeal 
together we can beat the odds and give everyone a 
fighting chance at real life
Thank you for believing!

Together we can make a difference that works in the real world!


Every dollar spent is to help John heal and
 create a road map to healing for all.

It takes about $100 per day to keep John on track a far cry of the  most cancer drugs on the market today.
This give John the best chance to fully heal and 
help others to have hope of their own.

Please donate if you are able at: gofundme.com/JohnWillHeal

 Quiz to help John:



Real world answers today creating stories for tomorrows world: For a Cancer Free World!

We have the solutions, John's body is healing and life is happening and moving from surviving to thriving. Just like a bone that is healing, it takes a full healing for full weight and activities can be done without damage.

John will heal fully one day at time under the watch full eyes that see the good, the bad and the ugly, until he is able and ready to do it for himself. In 30 years the oncologist at 

UC Davis said only 2 patients have gotten rid of their cancer on their own, together we can make John the 3rd. Thanks again for your good thoughts, prayers and support.
Thanks for believing!
Team JOHN


John's ordinary Healing now.


Our goal: John to heal 
and help create 
a cancer free world


Team JOHN has real world solutions 
that are working now.


The insurance company will
let John die instead
paying for what he needs


This should never happen
and yet it does every day
John must survive to 
keep our family whole 
while giving feed back to doctor's and nurses
answering all their questions
to have hope beyond drugs.


Real World Solutions.


Please:
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Tuesday, January 13, 2015

Reminds me of Cancer When an adult child and parent can not have a conversation is health the reason?





Reminds me of Cancer
When an adult child and parent can not have a 
conversation
is health the reason?
 

There is a solution that works for both
Together we can create a cancer free world
If you are reading this you have the power to help John 

1-13-2015 by Cynthia G. Creel

Help John live
Google johnwillheal

A conversation for life, John's story of hope
creating a change of heart
for a better tomorrow for all
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facebook.com/JohnWillHeal
Reminds me of Cancer
When an adult child and parent can not have a 
conversation
is health the reason?
 


Thoughts from 

Why Some Grown Kids Cut Off Their Parents

Could their estrangement be caused by how we raised them?

By Elizabeth Vagnoni | January 11, 2015
"We are finding real world answers to solve real world issues

"The truth is — I am estranged from my two adult sons. 

The truth is — I love my sons and I miss them every day.

The truth is — I can’t understand how in the world this has happened.

The truth is — saying you love them and miss them is not enough. There is much more to say, but you need a conversation — you need actual interaction, not just silence.

For me, the estrangement began over what I believed to be a misunderstanding. Since then, I’ve been on a journey of understanding, or at least trying to understand."

There is a real world answer to all of this and it starts by understanding Cancer. The shadow effects before cancer developed is seen in many ways. When we solve for cancer we solve for many social issues to be able to connect. This should never happen between children and parents and yet it happens everyday. In the last 10 years we have see the thoughts that a body that is a risk creates many walls to over come. This walls are no impossible to climb, just need the right "equipment". The brain is designed to have very large capacity of memory and judgment cells deigned to grow and develop over a lifetime. Cancer hinders growth of anything except the cancer cells they are very greedy and want it all.

We are at our best when our body mind connection works every moment of everyday. This is what we work for is to find the real world answers to create a healthy body that has nothing dragging it down.

It all starts by helping one person, John to find a way to bring full healing to the body with no fear of abnormal cells returning to stay and kill. When we solve to create healing it works in more ways then solving one issue at a time like may of the "cures" that are attempted.

Don't be fooled by the fake in the world, real is real and fake can never be real no matter how close to real it is.

http://www.gofundme.com/JohnWillHeal


John's Apollo 13 mission to fully heal from what is left of an identified large sarcoma to survive and to thrive:

John has been identified with an extra large, now large sarcoma. Their really isn't a choice of traditional methods and with that we created John's ordinary healing now, a cascade healing that is working in the real world, it is a real world solution for many. We just need support from hugs to funds to help John fully heal and that take a thought that moves to an action to help.

Check out John's JOHN'S ORDINARY HEALING NOW fund
at gofundme.com/JohnWillHeal 
together we can beat the odds and give everyone a 
fighting chance at real life
Thank you for believing!

Together we can make a difference that works in the real world!


Every dollar spent is to help John heal and
create a road map to healing for all.

It takes about $100 per day to keep John on track a far cry of the most cancer drugs on the market today.
This give John the best chance to fully heal and 
help others to have hope of their own.

Please donate if you are able at: gofundme.com/JohnWillHeal





Real world answers today creating stories for tomorrows world: For a Cancer Free World!

We have the solutions, John's body is healing and life is happening and moving from surviving to thriving. Just like a bone that is healing, it takes a full healing for full weight and activities can be done without damage.

John will heal fully one day at time under the watch full eyes that see the good, the bad and the ugly, until he is able and ready to do it for himself. In 30 years the oncologist at 
UC Davis said only 2 patients have gotten rid of their cancer on their own, together we can make John the 3rd. Thanks again for your good thoughts, prayers and support.

Thanks for believing!
Team JOHN


John's ordinary Healing now.


Our goal: John to heal 
and help create 
a cancer free world


Team JOHN has real world solutions 
that are working now.


The insurance company will
let John die instead
paying for what he needs


This should never happen
and yet it does every day
John must survive to 
keep our family whole 
while giving feed back to doctor's and nurses
answering all their questions
to have hope beyond drugs.


Real World Solutions.


Please:
share~give~like



Monday, January 12, 2015

Would you want to go to heaven if you didn't know anyone? Are we old enough to die? Together we can create a cancer free world



Would you want to go to heaven if you didn't know anyone?
Together we can create a cancer free world
If you are reading this you have the power to help John 

1-10-2015 by Cynthia G. Creel

Help John live
Google johnwillheal

A conversation for life, John's story of hope
creating a change of heart
for a better tomorrow for all
share~give~like

Thank you for your prayers, thoughts and support to heal John
and help create a cancer free world for all!

"We live in a world together and 
together we will choose actions to help us all thrive able to think beyond
or end up just surviving 
no longer able to think beyond our own noses." 
~ CGCREEL 



It seems the reason most think of heaven is to see the people we who have passed before us to make that connection. Cancer brings many thoughts to mind and one is about death which is always a possibility. The question thought of was how many would want to go to heaven if they did not know anyone there? which lead me to the real question based on  science and Christian religion agree that man could easily live to 120 years. (National Geographic May 2013 and Genesis  6:3 NIV).
If we can live to 120 would we want to live if we didn't share a history with anyone?

Too often families and doctor's give up on figuring out how to help someone live because they are "old" they only have a few more years to live. The average age in the United States is 78.8 years in 2012 according to the CDC. 

Recently there was a story of a young mom that died right after giving birth to a little baby girl on the Dr. Oz show 1-9-2015 the doctors worked on her for 45 minutes because they knew she was young and had much to live for.

I had a friend at 87 she had heart attack and it seems the over all attitude was she had a long life to live and we did what we could. Did they do what they could? 

 If we are over 78.8 years old there is no point to helping the body to heal and move forward?
If they think we are old enough to die than do people or doctors try to find a way for some one to survive and thrive or is it off to heaven? This may be a cost to having over 7 billion people on Earth that there are too many to help and it takes a person who can focus on what is possible for the individual and the whole population to know there is something to be done no matter the age.


Cancer is deadly at any age and healing is possible, increase the odds healing will will happen: 

Cancer is no different, I feel this thought that John is old enough to die when he was identified with a head sized sarcoma. The feeling John was old and young gave great questions to the minds of the doctors of what to do. The first information I gave to the doctor's at Stanford and every doctor we have seen is the idea that John had a lot of life left to live, that he is important to his family and we need him. There is a difference in what is offered to a person when the doctor knows someone cares. It was one small way to keep the door open for healing to  happen. It was the story that was told as a blockbuster only it  had to be done in less than a minute.

It is possible to live to 120 years, if we do not have the ones we love with us is the memory of them enough? Is the time to make a difference now when someone is alive? Death and heaven will always be there, the gift of life is the here and now. There is no question 120 years is possible, the real question is how many people is it possible for?

As in Heaven would we want to live here on Earth without friends and family that share a history with us? It is why we need to focus on life, not death. We do better every time we have a world to share with the ones we love.

John is alive and surviving moving to thriving. We still have along ways to go. If this story was use full please make a donation to 
gofundme.com/JohnWillHeal


John's Apollo 13 mission to fully heal from what is left of an identified large sarcoma to survive and to thrive:

John has been identified with an extra large, now large sarcoma. Their really isn't a choice of traditional methods and with that we created John's ordinary healing now, a cascade healing that is working in the real world, it is a real world solution for many. We just need support from hugs to funds to help John fully heal and that take a thought that moves to an action to help.

Check out John's JOHN'S ORDINARY HEALING NOW fund
at gofundme.com/JohnWillHeal   
together we can beat the odds and give everyone a 

fighting chance at real life
Thank you for believing!

Together we can make a difference that works in the real world!


Every dollar spent is to help John heal and
 create a road map to healing for all.

It takes about $100 per day to keep John on track a far cry of the  most cancer drugs on the market today.
This give John the best chance to fully heal and 
help others to have hope of their own.

Please donate if you are able at: gofundme.com/JohnWillHeal





Real world answers today creating stories for tomorrows world: For a Cancer Free World!

We have the solutions, John's body is healing and life is happening and moving from surviving to thriving. Just like a bone that is healing, it takes a full healing for full weight and activities can be done without damage.

John will heal fully one day at time under the watch full eyes that see the good, the bad and the ugly, until he is able and ready to do it for himself. In 30 years the oncologist at 
UC Davis said only 2 patients have gotten rid of their cancer on their own, together we can make John the 3rd. Thanks again for your good thoughts, prayers and support.

Thanks for believing!
Team JOHN


John's ordinary Healing now.


Our goal: John to heal 
and help create 
a cancer free world


Team JOHN has real world solutions 
that are working now.


The insurance company will
let John die instead
paying for what he needs


This should never happen
and yet it does every day
John must survive to 
keep our family whole 
while giving feed back to doctor's and nurses
answering all their questions
to have hope beyond drugs.


Real World Solutions.


Please:
share~give~like





Saturday, January 10, 2015

Does cancer have a skin color? Together we can create a cancer free world





Does cancer have a skin color?

Together we can create a cancer free world
If you are reading this you have the power to help John 

1-10-2015 by Cynthia G. Creel

Help John live
Google johnwillheal

A conversation for life, John's story of hope
creating a change of heart
for a better tomorrow for all
share~give~like


Thank you for your prayers, thoughts and support to heal John
and help create a cancer free world for all!

"We live in a world together and 
together we will choose actions to help us all thrive able to think beyond
or end up just surviving 
no longer able to think beyond our own noses." 
~ CGCREEL 


 Many shades of skin almost as many shades of kitties. White white to brown brown to yellow yellow to black black and all the 50 shades in between. 


Is there a hidden message we do not see when we become color blind to the color of the skin?

We are all human no matter the skin color. That is what we are taught, is there more to skin color than meets the average eye?


 What's more important than the shade is the shade of health within the shade of skin. What is interesting looking a box of flesh colored crayons none of the colors are colors of healthy skin. In fact the cheaper made crayon the more fake the color.

We live in a fake work and when reality peeks it's head out people run to fake unless they know real then fake can send a strong message of do not come near. We focused on what dose not matter, for that is easy, it is someone else who will have to change, it is only when we focus on real world solutions will we find what we need when we need it and how to get it. The worst part of a fake picture if you have not experienced and remember real that the fake will change every thing about the color and the color change will be unnoticed. Cheap is a simulation of real, it is fake and that makes cheap very dangerous indeed.
Does Cancer have a skin color?

Cancer lives in the shadow of the grays within a persons natural skin color, it give hints that something is wrong. It lets us hid our eyes and we stop looking in the mirror at us and look at things like is my hair perfect or do I need some more hair product? If we never see the true color than we many end up with a sudden case of cancer. With the realty of fake looking so close to real. Keep in mind digital or man made can never actually be real unless you are making a real baby.

Do we really not like people because of the color of their flesh or what we do not like may be the absents of color in the depth of the tone of unhealthy skin? Maybe it is just easier to say it doesn't matter until the day the doctor looks at you and says you have cancer. Then maybe it is more important not to be color blind but color distinguished of real health or fake health from a box or while looking at an enhanced photo of who you wish you were. 

John's Apollo 13 mission to fully heal from what is left of an identified large sarcoma to survive and to thrive:


John has been identified with an extra large, now large sarcoma. Their really isn't a choice of traditional methods and with that we created John's ordinary healing now, a cascade healing that is working in the real world, it is a real world solution for many. We just need support from hugs to funds to help John fully heal and that take a thought that moves to an action to help.

Check out John's JOHN'S ORDINARY HEALING NOW fund
at gofundme.com/JohnWillHeal   
together we can beat the odds and give everyone a 

fighting chance at real life
Thank you for believing!

Together we can make a difference that works in the real world!


Every dollar spent is to help John heal and
 create a road map to healing for all.

It takes about $100 per day to keep John on track a far cry of the  most cancer drugs on the market today.
This give John the best chance to fully heal and 
help others to have hope of their own.

Please donate if you are able at: gofundme.com/JohnWillHeal





Real world answers today creating stories for tomorrows world: For a Cancer Free World!

We have the solutions, John's body is healing and life is happening and moving from surviving to thriving. Just like a bone that is healing, it takes a full healing for full weight and activities can be done without damage.

John will heal fully one day at time under the watch full eyes that see the good, the bad and the ugly, until he is able and ready to do it for himself. In 30 years the oncologist at 
UC Davis said only 2 patients have gotten rid of their cancer on their own, together we can make John the 3rd. Thanks again for your good thoughts, prayers and support.

Thanks for believing!
Team JOHN


John's ordinary Healing now.


Our goal: John to heal 
and help create 
a cancer free world


Team JOHN has real world solutions 
that are working now.


The insurance company will
let John die instead
paying for what he needs


This should never happen
and yet it does every day
John must survive to 
keep our family whole 
while giving feed back to doctor's and nurses
answering all their questions
to have hope beyond drugs.


Real World Solutions.


Please:
share~give~like