Monday, December 1, 2014

Is it possible to beat the odds with the ordinary?



 Is it possible to beat the odds 
with the ordinary?
By Cynthia Creel
12-1-2014
Help share John's story of hope and John finish healing
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I lay next to John and all I could think of is there is a reason why and if there is a reason why there is a solution to heal. Ironically i thought of my life experience that told me death was near, there would be no real solution by others.

When I was 23 my mom died of ovarian cancer. I stood by, watching her body be starved by the cancer.  Having no clue what to do I just hoped for the best. Back then I lived at home with my parents and bothers and ran a small business. I had money to buy what ever she needed. The past experience was only the doctor's would figure a way to save her. She would live. January 6 1981, just a few months after her operations and a few weeks after the last treatments, my mom's life became a memory to be held in my heart. The path of my life changed forever. 

John and I had just been together for a few months and yet this tragedy bond us together like no other could.  John was there for me in my hour of greatest need. He always has been for the last 33 years. Today I look at him and see my mom's abdomen, I know the difference and this time there was no waiting for answers there was only discovering. Would it be enough is always my question. Create more time became the goal. 

Finding answers takes a good reason to look for them. Not everyone understood the reasons why I looked, nor did I have time to explain. It is like running a marathon all there is time for is running, pacing and garbing the drinks they hand you. At the end of the race the facts of how well you prepared will show.  Team John has spent the last year researching and I have spent the last 5 years researching giving us more than 20,000 hours of time to look for answers, put all the pieces together with diverse critical thinking to create a cascading healing.
 It is simple John become a part of the 40% who have a chance of developing cancer, we want him to finish healing and not become part of the half that die.Most likely with the size of the tumor The identification of the 200 gram sarcoma cancer. We quickly found not only John had to heal and overcome this tumor or his life would be lost, that there were few to no answers that were viable in the medical community. We have met some awesome doctor's looking to cure, that would be the last resort. Some days it is frustrating the insurance company would pay $1,000,000 towards and operation and treatments that have little to no chance of helping John beyond a few weeks. I often think of Steve Jobs saying he was "cancer free" and soon it all came back taking a man who was a 4 dimensional, diverse critical thinker. A great loss for all of us.  I often wonder how many families get stuck with not idea, now way to pay and grab for the only option out of desperation. 

Over the last year Team John has found real world answers to create healing. I am the head "bio-chemist" ready to create what is needed. The above 100+ hour of time invested in creating just one of the ordinary healing product takes an average of 3 hours to prepare. There is no recipe on paper.It is my art to create this small master piece to help heal with each bite to keep John stable and move him forward to a full healing.
Team John still has a few new ways to attack tumor, the dark one, and that are untested. We do have real world solutions that have dissolved one tumor and reduced the other by 6 cm. Healing is happening and full healing is necessary. If John is not healing then the tumor is growing more powerful. There is never a day that goes by that flexibility, understanding the dark one's strengths and turning them into a weakness. It is not enough to save the body, the twinkle in the eye, the smile that lights up when I come into the room, the hugs with intent, all the things that I fell in love with and all that makes John the best dad. 

No family should suffer needlessly.

Every family should have a chance to heal.



No one should turn invisible,

No family should suffer needlessly.

No one is left behind. 

Thank you for believing.

We have real world solutions that we need funds to create. We have a responsibility to heal John and help the world. 
Please feel free to share Johns story to help others believe  in themselves. http://www.gofundme.com/JohnWillHeal

Thank you for all your support it is because of your kindness we have come so far. You helped give us hope that is needed to heal for John and others. Every dollar helps John live to tell a story of hope.

Dad's and husbands and grandfathers are so important to the family, nothing can quite fill their shoes if they are gone. Every father needs a second chance to heal. IF you are able please give and share John's story to help give others hope of ordinary times of a touch of a barefoot sat upon a coffee table to know we are not only alive, we thrive.

Thank you for believe.

Team JOHN
John's Ordinary Healing Now Team


More info: John will heal: a conversation: facebook.com/JohnWillHeal

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